my mom just discovered tiny houses. this shit’s adorable.
my mom just discovered tiny houses. this shit’s adorable.
Anonymous said: How do I stop hating myself?
It’s not easy. It takes time and patience. There will be peaks and lows. But it is manageable, it really is. You can get to a good place: somewhere peaceful and bright that you barely recognise when you compare it to the day by day grey of your life before. Treat yourself like a friend. Treat yourself like a best friend. Take the attentive and nurturing patience you have always reserved for the people you love most in your life and apply it to yourself. When you mess up, comfort yourself. Forgive yourself over and over again, for the big and the small things. Get in touch with your body in some kind of creative or relaxing way. Take a dance class, do a yoga tutorial on Youtube, get a tattoo, do your make-up, dye your hair or shave it or grow it out. Help your outside to look more like your inside in a safe and artistic way. Let yourself indulge in things that make you happy. Listen to pop music if you want to, watch two star films when the feeling takes you. Talk to yourself. Encourage yourself. Give yourself rewards for things. Be very very gentle with you. You deserve kindness and respect and love. Allow yourself these things. Give yourself these things. Ask for help sometimes, and then love yourself for doing that, because it’s never easy. Pray. It helps. Eat well, sleep well, make art. Whether it’s music, poetry, sketches, dance, or something completely different. Maybe you like historical reenactments. Maybe you like video games. Maybe you like reading political magazines, or riding horses, or petting dogs. Whatever it is, go for it. Allow yourself joy. Heal and grow, and take all the time you need.
it’s a woody guthrie and earl grey kind of night
It’s Bi Visibility Day! Here are some famous bi people with quotes about their bisexuality :)
Alan Cumming: “I don’t understand this but I never felt any shame about my sexuality and the idea that I found boys attractive as well as girls.”
Lady Gaga: “I’m boy-crazy, and girl-crazy too. it really depends on where I am. I love men, I love women and I love sex.”
Freddie Mercury: “I play on the bisexual thing because it’s something else, it’s fun… the last thing I want to do is to give people an idea of exactly who I am. I want people to work out their own interpretation of me and my image.”
David Bowie: “It’s true — I am a bisexual. But I can’t deny that I’ve used that fact very well. I suppose it’s the best thing that ever happened to me.”
Anna Paquin: “For me, it’s not really an issue because I’m someone who believes being bisexual is actually a thing. It’s not made up. It’s not a lack of decision. It’s not being greedy or numerous other ignorant things I’ve heard at this point.”
Kurt Cobain: “I’m definitely gay in spirit, and I probably could be bisexual… If I wouldn’t have found Courtney, I probably would have carried on with a bisexual lifestyle.”
Drew Barrymore: “I regard myself as bisexual. If you’re with a woman, it is like if you’re exploring your own body, only through someone else.”
Angelina Jolie: “I like everything. Boyish girls, girlish boys, the heavy and the skinny. Which is a problem when I’m walking down the street.”
Skin: “Yes I happen to be female and black and bisexual and these are things that are part of me, but they don’t tell the whole picture, it’s too limiting to put people in boxes like that.”
Amy Winehouse: “There is something about being with a woman that is very satisfying. I don’t care what people think about me being bi — I do what feels good.”
I want 0 responsibilities and a lot of lingerie
i joined the bandwagon oops
This is the best thing ever to happen to me on the internet.
my tiny worrisome asian mother strikes again (part 1)
MY ALARM GOES OFF SO I ROLL OVER AND CHECK MY PHONE AND MY AMERICAN GODS GOOGLE ALERT HAS DELIVERED THIS BOUNTY UNTO ME????????
AM I STILL FUCKING DREAMING, I THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER SEE THE GODDAMN DAY, BRYAN FULLER YOU ARE MAKING MY WILDEST DREAMS COME TRUE ONE CARNIVOROUS VAGINA AT A TIME
I don’t even know shit about American Gods but both of these headlines are GOLD
I hereby entrust Bryan Fuller with my most beloved texts. He deserves them.
Mockup of a book cover idea I had for Jane Eyre.
The jacket is the fire (obviously) but when you take it off, you see the damage the fire left behind.
Haven’t you heard the word of your body? (x)
As someone who has deaf family members that enjoy theatre, I think this is really effin cool. - Rachel
I can’t wait to see what will go on between couples at dinner after they see the movie. There are so many interesting tectonic shifts. When the people I’ve shown the movie come out of it, they are either Team Amy or Team Nick. Team Amy doesn’t have a single quibble about her behavior, and Team Nick doesn’t have any problems with his. Then there are people who primarily measure it against the book and how they felt about the characters in the book. And the narrative of the movie is vastly denuded from the way it’s allowed to grow and bloom in the novel. It wasn’t a defoliation as much as a deforestation. Once you got it back to the branches and the trunk, it was pretty easy to see that this movie was going to be about who we are and who we present to those we are endeavoring to seduce. And the absurdity of that difference needed to be part of the two-and-a-half-hour fabric in a much bigger way than in the novel. For me, the 30 percent of the novel that’s about who we present—our narcissistic façades—becomes the entire foundation of the movie.
When we started working together, the biggest concern was how we would represent the two voices. Gillian [Flynn] quickly adapted to the structure that the “she said” is in flashback and the “he said” is being lived out in front of you. And you question which one is reliable or if either of them are. When we pruned back, Amy’s “cool girl” speech becomes central to the exploration of “we’ve been married five years now and I can’t get it up any more to be that person you were initially attracted to and I’m exhausted by it and I’m resentful that you still expect this.” And you throw in a little homicidal rage and it’s a fairly combustible idea. Does that make sense? [Much laughter] I’m so sorry I made this movie: it’s just not marketable.
like yeah cool we follow each other but when are we gonna date